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Could it be possible that some insecure women may harbor a subconscious fear that if we are successful we may become a more attractive proposition to other women, in direct proportion to the level of our success?
Could the endless complaining we often hear about spending too much time at the office or the statements such as 'you can't buy love' or 'there is more to life than money' be an attempt to satisfy the subconscious fear and make us believe in our mundane, average, cash strapped lives, that "at least my wife loves and supports me, she knows how difficult it is to get ahead and make a go of things" - no matter what happens I know she is the only one that will put up with this constant struggle, I am so lucky to have her!
Have we not possibly shot ourselves in the proverbial foot, so to speak?